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Frustration Dump.
The frustration of life some days is so intense, so debilitating & so over whelming that I don't know what to do. I don't know how to...
Alex Bates
Mar 17, 20242 min read
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RESPECT FOR AUTHORITY
Well now here’s a subject I certainly did not see me writing about in my blog posts anytime soon or never! But this past couple of weeks...
Alex Bates
Mar 2, 20233 min read
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Love in the now!
Well of course this is the time of year when we think about love, whether it has been forced upon us from the commercial Valentine...
Alex Bates
Feb 14, 20232 min read
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Power of Family and Friends
Our Family and Friends can be a powerful force field in our lives, some make it easy and some make it hard. As the saying goes you can...
Alex Bates
Jan 19, 20232 min read
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The struggle of Non-binary
So generally I am pretty OK with being the Male bodied Female energised human being I identify and present in but every now and again the...
Alex Bates
Jan 12, 20232 min read
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So it begins!
I am so happy and grateful for another year, another year of opportunity, personal growth and expression, welcoming 2023 with open arms....
Alex Bates
Jan 2, 20232 min read
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And relax before taking on 2023!
Now that was a lovely Christmas I must say, very relaxing and chilled with definitely way too much food!! I feel like I have a food...
Alex Bates
Dec 27, 20222 min read
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Single, Sober & Stuffed at Christmas
So have you met anyone yet? When are you going to find a nice guy and settle down? Are you still partying these days? You don’t know when...
Alex Bates
Dec 22, 20222 min read
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New Birth
So here we are a week before Christmas 2022, 40 yrs since my 1st ever Christmas. What a whole new world for me back then, which is funny...
Alex Bates
Dec 19, 20222 min read
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WHO, WHAT, WHERE,WHEN??
How did I become this Male-Femme energised body of creativity, craziness and courage? Growing up in Belfast N, Ireland, being effeminate...
Alex Bates
Nov 21, 20222 min read
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